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       CreativeParents 
        Interviews Jill Lauren: Success Stories of People with Learning Differences 
         
         
        Jill 
        Lauren M.A., author of That’s Like Me ! is a learning specialist 
        who has worked with “amazing kids and adults” to help them 
        succeed in reading and writing.  
         
        That’s Like Me!, published 
        by Star Bright Books, profiles successful children and adults with learning 
        disabilities. It was chosen to receive the 2010 Margot Marek book award 
        from the New York Branch of the International Dyslexia Association. This 
        award goes to the most outstanding book written for parents or children 
        on the subject of dyslexia or related learning disabilities. 
        Jill Lauren’s first book, Succeeding with LD (also published 
        by Star Bright) provides encouragement and suggestions to those struggling 
        in school and beyond.  
      CreativeParents: 
        What was the inspiration for your books?  
      Jill 
        Lauren: 
        The inspiration to write books about children 
        and adults who learn differently arose during a conversation I had with 
        a young student named Margaret who was in third grade. Margaret, a happy 
        child, had been bummed out for weeks. I had a feeling why.  
         
        I asked her if she knew why she needed extra help with me in the Resource 
        Room. She explained that she had a “learning disability.” 
        I was surprised that she knew the term. When I asked, “What’s 
        a learning disability,” she responded, “I don’t know. 
        My parents didn’t tell me.”  
      CreativeParents: 
        What did you say to Margaret? 
         
        Jill Lauren: 
        I began explaining how some smart people have trouble 
        taking in or giving out information. ‘Smart people having trouble 
        learning’ is a difficult concept for anyone to grasp. So I told 
        Margaret about people such as Cher and Tom Cruise, who were very popular 
        at the time. Putting a face on LD comforted her. Margaret is the one who 
        said “This should be in a book.” I dedicated Succeeding 
        with LD to Margaret.  
         
        CreativeParents: When do kids with learning challenges usually notice 
        that they are struggling more than their peers?  
      Jill 
        Lauren: 
        Third and fourth grade are the years when kids who learn 
        differently often start to wonder whether or not something is wrong with 
        them. 
         
        CreativeParents: What is the main goal 
        of That’s Like Me!? 
         
        Jill Lauren: 
        The primary goal is to help kids feel that not only are they “normal,” 
        meaning there are lots of other people like them, but also to show them 
        that being smart and having a hard time in school can actually coexist. 
       
        CreativeParents: How does knowing this make a difference? 
         
        Jill Lauren: 
        With this knowledge, kids can begin to accept their academic challenges 
        and learn how to work hard with the proper support. The individuals in 
        That’s Like Me! also share tips and techniques for how 
        they dealt with their LD, which may be helpful to readers. 
       
        CreativeParents: Any tips or clues about what people 
        who succeed have in common?  
         
        Jill Lauren:  
        Everyone profiled in the book found a hobby to explore that fostered a 
        sense of pride and accomplishment, and readers are encouraged to do the 
        same.  
         
        CreativeParents: What are some examples? 
         
        Jill Lauren: 
        A love of animals led one of the people profiled 
        in That’s Like Me! to become a veterinarian. He learned 
        to read as an adult, after his daughter noticed he made up the words to 
        her bedtime stories. He went to college, and then to veterinary school 
        at the age of 40.  
         
        Of course now learning differences are generally diagnosed earlier, and 
        many of the people profiled in the book are elementary and high school 
        kids who describe what it’s like to break tasks into steps, and 
        persist -- even when the going gets tough. 
         
        Overall, the messages are to accept and understand 
        one’s learning profile; work hard to face the challenge of school; 
        and find a hobby to explore. These are three keys to empowering kids – 
        and adults. 
         
        CreativeParents: What do parents and teachers need to know about kids 
        with learning differences?  
         
        Jill Lauren: 
        Parents and teachers need to understand messages 
        about empowerment because they will be the ones to guide children with 
        learning differences. I think parents who are just learning what a learning 
        disability is themselves will find That’s Like Me! hopeful. 
        There are lots of people with LD who have done amazing things, and the 
        key is to support kids both emotionally and academically.  
         
        Teachers who have children with learning disabilities in their classes 
        can gain a better understanding of the struggles such children experiences 
        by reading the profiles in That’s Like Me!. My hope is 
        that teachers will be inspired to provide the patience and encouragement 
        needed, along with the proper academic support. Since kids with LD are 
        sometimes targets of teasing, a teacher can share some of the profiles 
        with his or her class in order to teach kids a more compassionate way 
        of viewing their peers who struggle in school. 
         
        CreativeParents: What has been the feedback on That’s Like Me!? 
         
         
        Jill Lauren:  
        I’ve heard lots of great stories. One first 
        grade teacher told me about a mother who read the book to a first grader 
        who’d just learned he had dyslexia. The boy was thrilled to find 
        out that there were people just like him in a “real book.” 
         
        I’ve also had wonderful feedback from therapists who put That’s 
        Like Me! in their waiting rooms.  
        Jill Lauren has trained teachers around the U.S., and worked with many 
        school systems. In her private practice in New York City she works with 
        students with learning differences. Parents can upload their children’s 
        stories and photos onto her website at www.jilllauren.com. 
         
      
        
        
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